When we are quick to judge others, people or companies that may not be communicating honestly, that may be scared of having people gossip, or spread untruths, or being perceived inaccurately, we are creating an ‘me vs them’ space for ourselves, which is fear-based and can make us feel very constricted and small in our definition of ‘ourselves’.
Today (whenever you may be reading this), try to remember that each of us, as individuals, employees, mothers and fathers, sons and daughters, friends and lovers, strangers and enemies are doing the best we can at this moment. We all want to love and be loved, to be understood, to be happy. We each struggle to get past our fears and our thoughts in order to achieve this goal.
We’re all in this together.
[inspired by Teresa Basich’s wonderful manifesto, and the first decent conversation I’ve had with my father in years.]